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Thank so much FLMom.

Your pointers will be top issues and questions at my attorneys first thing in
morning.  11 years military, growing up in the country's most blighted city, I have never felt such terror, helplessness and emptyness.

My attorneys are focused primarily on getting an address to serve all the papers.
I have several investigators searching. I would do anything, anything just to hear the words "my boys are ok."

I am blessed to have the resources that many parents do not.  There seems to be
so many cards stacked against a parent just wanting to love their children.

There are three hearings set and I know one is an expedited one.

God Bless

>Have you contacted the FBI? Once enough time has elapsed that
>the child COULD HAVE been transported across state lines, they
>can legally get involved.
>
>The FBI has a mania about finding kidnappers and returning
>kids to their homes.

Thank You!  I will check this right away. There is so much I am not aware of.

I am desparately searching for as many options as I can.

 I lived with a person unmarried for six years. We have two boys. One son I am the legal father, the other I am not. They are my sons and my life.

 I knew mom had some troubles in previous marriages but not to the degree found after trying to find my sons.

 In June 0f 2006 our home started falling apart. She would not help with the proper care of the boys and completely (seemingly intentionally) destroyed our home in filth and abuse. The stress was extremely high and arguments were frequent. All was verbal and mainly focused on my sons safety and welfare.

 Her constant activity night and day surrounded around her laptop and cell phone and heavy metal musicians. We later discovered web sites, myspace etc. with activities that scared me to death. Pictures of my sons to unknowns with our location, giving out her cell and our home phone number. Ludicrous and revealing emails to very suspicous or unknown persons.

  She filed a verbal abuse restraining order removed my oldest son from school and left. The order was dropped at the hearing. She didn't show up.

  My fear is for my babies. Investigation has found her past checkered with trouble. First marriage surrounded violence and drugs, and shootings. The first husband was sentenced to five years in prison, and she was jailed.

  The second marriage much the same. Husband kidnapped my oldest son to try and avoid child support. Both were investigated for child abuse of a step daughter. The second husband has not communicated with my oldest son in six years.

  I have an attorney, hired private investigators and have filed a parental kidnapping incident report with the sheriffs department. (no cooperation
whatsoever).

 This person is a very convincing individual and very adept at manipulating the system. She uses many areas of ploy. joining care2, animal rights, amber alert member, etc. etc. etc. Research and desparately trying to find my sons has shown otherwise. relationship with a metal group where a band member is being charged with felony sexual assault of a minor.

  I have never been arrested in my life, don't drink, high standing and respect in my community, love my boys more than anything. I had never been in court for anything before this. It makes a person feel dirty and flawed. I am close to her parents, we talk every day, but they live in Japan.


  I am desparately searching for any or all other options that would help in finding my sons. It's been one month.


God Bless