She will not agree to a parenting plan.. I tried that with her as 2 adults during the divorce. She has not let them come visit me since the divorce started.
I am not worried about custody payments, but I did explain to her up front at the time that I would help out where I can. If it was bills I told her to send me the bill and if it was things my children needed to let me know and I would send money. I did send money from time to time and clothing. But for the past few years I was struggling my self getting my self situated where I now live and was not able to send stuff on a regular basis.
Bottom line right now is, she is preventing me from seeing my children & my children from seeing me and their grand parents. All because she is not getting money. But she says I am not being part of their lives, but thats hard to do when she will not even let them come visit me at all.
She says she will let them come visit if I pay child support, which I am in the position to start sending money on a more regular basis. But my gut feeling tells me she still will not. How can I trust some one, who made agreements with me over the well being of our children and then doesn't follow through. We made a parenting plan before our divorce was even in effect. I was the idiot, but not no more. I should of never left it up to her to file on the behalf of both of us.
it has now been 3 weeks since I last talked to my children. I leave messages almost everyday, but never hear from them, I even left a message to speak with their mother still no phone call.
I am not worried about custody payments, but I did explain to her up front at the time that I would help out where I can. If it was bills I told her to send me the bill and if it was things my children needed to let me know and I would send money. I did send money from time to time and clothing. But for the past few years I was struggling my self getting my self situated where I now live and was not able to send stuff on a regular basis.
Bottom line right now is, she is preventing me from seeing my children & my children from seeing me and their grand parents. All because she is not getting money. But she says I am not being part of their lives, but thats hard to do when she will not even let them come visit me at all.
She says she will let them come visit if I pay child support, which I am in the position to start sending money on a more regular basis. But my gut feeling tells me she still will not. How can I trust some one, who made agreements with me over the well being of our children and then doesn't follow through. We made a parenting plan before our divorce was even in effect. I was the idiot, but not no more. I should of never left it up to her to file on the behalf of both of us.
it has now been 3 weeks since I last talked to my children. I leave messages almost everyday, but never hear from them, I even left a message to speak with their mother still no phone call.