I would like to talk to your more about some of the back history and some of her more flavorful attacks toward my character as a parent maybe tomorrow when I have the time to sit down and type them. My facts were very straight from the first message I posted, in your last reply you were only seeing some of the last few replies which is understandable.
Hourly I make 11.973 per hour, I work 37.5 to 40 hours per week.
That calculates out to about $897.97 bi-weekly, now minus the days I take off to spend with my kids because every other week I have a full three days off and don't get a full forty hours two weeks out of the month it ends up around $1795.00-1835.00 per month including commission.
Of that, CS has me covering %100 of the medical, dental, and vision for the boys which was a total of $280.00 per check. (CS said that my percentage of that amount will now be about 100.00 per check) Being as these costs are supposed to be split 50/50
Now the CS office went on my wifes word because I was never served with the CS paperwork, they actually served the front office of my apartment complex and had a signature to back that up. She told them I was making $5,000.00 per month, so CS was taking $2,000.00 from me each month based on her information. She also told them that I only spend %5 of my time with my boys. If you do the math according to the CS office if I were spending every other weekend that would be considered %20 of the time, not %5.
Aside from the extra holidays and 1 on 1 weekends with each of my four boys during the year I spend a good %35 to %40 of my time with them. That counts in my favor. The case worker took my current paystubs today, my W4 statement for 2006, my commissions earnings, and my itemized list of monthly bills including car, rent, food etc, and calculated my monthly responsibility to $818.00 per month. Make more sense now? I hope you don't think I was misleading you as that was not my intent, and I realize that is exactly what an attorney would do to me in court so I thank you for that lesson.
After I spent the time at the child support office I sent Jeannine a text message asking her to rethink her stance on denying my visitation because that would be bad for all of us. She's mad at me. She called me 23 times and left brutal voice mails for me all day long ripping me apart and trying to make me feel as if I am a rotten parent. I don't agree with her on this, I believe that we both need to be in our children's lives as much as possible and not bicker because were mad at the other parent. However, I do not feel that her anger and venom is warranted and therefor refuse to answer my phone during working hours. She is constantly trying to interrupt my time at work, and does this just as bad during my time with my boys. I find it to be very disruptive. I just want order and stability, no longer do I want the chaos this is causing between the boys and us Parents.
When Jeannine and I first had our last fight, Jeannine took a swing at me, to which I raised my hand to block. She told the police that I slapped her. I went to jail for three days, finished my anger management, paid my fines. I have never ever hit a woman in my life even to this day, I am not that kind of person, I tend to keep my cool so well, that it tends to enrage people to the point of lashing out at me.
In terms of her living situation and BF, seven people packed into one small room is unhealthy and wrong period. As far as Jeff goes, he has had a marriage once before that ended because he was so abusive to his xwife that he ended up hospitalizing her. This man is now with my xwife Jeannine, and this has been bad from day 1. The first instances that happened were his spanking my children, I called CPS instantly upon hearing of this and CPS went to her and told her and Jeff that that was not to happen, there was an instance where both Jeannine and Jeff were tested for Meth use but nothing came of it, the second instance was Jeff slapping Jeannine, she called the police and they spent time looking for him but again nothing came of it. The third instance he locked her and the kids inside the house they had at that time (They were renting) and Screamed all kinds of profanities at the kids and slapped Jeannine around a bit. The fourth instance Jeannine called me when I had the boys crying in a parking lot because Jeff had sat on her after coming home drunk, busted her cheekbone, gave her a black eye, and terrorized her for a few hours before she was able to grab their baby and get away. She called the police and he went to jail for 3 days. She took him back every single time, regardless of Anger Management, regardless of the restraining order imposed by the DA in riverside. This is how bad it has been in regards to her living condition.
Me? I just dont make enough money and have terrible credit as a result of my divorce, the house, and all the bills I am paying. I cant borrow the money from anyone.
I really want to talk more about some of the issues, but I think that this should give you an pretty clear understanding of the full situation at this time.
Thank you
Hourly I make 11.973 per hour, I work 37.5 to 40 hours per week.
That calculates out to about $897.97 bi-weekly, now minus the days I take off to spend with my kids because every other week I have a full three days off and don't get a full forty hours two weeks out of the month it ends up around $1795.00-1835.00 per month including commission.
Of that, CS has me covering %100 of the medical, dental, and vision for the boys which was a total of $280.00 per check. (CS said that my percentage of that amount will now be about 100.00 per check) Being as these costs are supposed to be split 50/50
Now the CS office went on my wifes word because I was never served with the CS paperwork, they actually served the front office of my apartment complex and had a signature to back that up. She told them I was making $5,000.00 per month, so CS was taking $2,000.00 from me each month based on her information. She also told them that I only spend %5 of my time with my boys. If you do the math according to the CS office if I were spending every other weekend that would be considered %20 of the time, not %5.
Aside from the extra holidays and 1 on 1 weekends with each of my four boys during the year I spend a good %35 to %40 of my time with them. That counts in my favor. The case worker took my current paystubs today, my W4 statement for 2006, my commissions earnings, and my itemized list of monthly bills including car, rent, food etc, and calculated my monthly responsibility to $818.00 per month. Make more sense now? I hope you don't think I was misleading you as that was not my intent, and I realize that is exactly what an attorney would do to me in court so I thank you for that lesson.
After I spent the time at the child support office I sent Jeannine a text message asking her to rethink her stance on denying my visitation because that would be bad for all of us. She's mad at me. She called me 23 times and left brutal voice mails for me all day long ripping me apart and trying to make me feel as if I am a rotten parent. I don't agree with her on this, I believe that we both need to be in our children's lives as much as possible and not bicker because were mad at the other parent. However, I do not feel that her anger and venom is warranted and therefor refuse to answer my phone during working hours. She is constantly trying to interrupt my time at work, and does this just as bad during my time with my boys. I find it to be very disruptive. I just want order and stability, no longer do I want the chaos this is causing between the boys and us Parents.
When Jeannine and I first had our last fight, Jeannine took a swing at me, to which I raised my hand to block. She told the police that I slapped her. I went to jail for three days, finished my anger management, paid my fines. I have never ever hit a woman in my life even to this day, I am not that kind of person, I tend to keep my cool so well, that it tends to enrage people to the point of lashing out at me.
In terms of her living situation and BF, seven people packed into one small room is unhealthy and wrong period. As far as Jeff goes, he has had a marriage once before that ended because he was so abusive to his xwife that he ended up hospitalizing her. This man is now with my xwife Jeannine, and this has been bad from day 1. The first instances that happened were his spanking my children, I called CPS instantly upon hearing of this and CPS went to her and told her and Jeff that that was not to happen, there was an instance where both Jeannine and Jeff were tested for Meth use but nothing came of it, the second instance was Jeff slapping Jeannine, she called the police and they spent time looking for him but again nothing came of it. The third instance he locked her and the kids inside the house they had at that time (They were renting) and Screamed all kinds of profanities at the kids and slapped Jeannine around a bit. The fourth instance Jeannine called me when I had the boys crying in a parking lot because Jeff had sat on her after coming home drunk, busted her cheekbone, gave her a black eye, and terrorized her for a few hours before she was able to grab their baby and get away. She called the police and he went to jail for 3 days. She took him back every single time, regardless of Anger Management, regardless of the restraining order imposed by the DA in riverside. This is how bad it has been in regards to her living condition.
Me? I just dont make enough money and have terrible credit as a result of my divorce, the house, and all the bills I am paying. I cant borrow the money from anyone.
I really want to talk more about some of the issues, but I think that this should give you an pretty clear understanding of the full situation at this time.
Thank you