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Lawyer showed up 5 min before scheduled time.  Took everything I had to wifes attny who advised her not to proceed.  I asked that we drop and share custody.  She refused..went to judge..She had her mom.  I had testimony of police, neighbor....ended up having to take the 5th ammendment because I used a tape recorder to protect myself against false accusations..Oh yeah after I already answered 15 min of questions about the tape..her attorney then continued to question me about tape.  We take a break, my lawyer get in my face & tells me hes done, because I didnt understand the question her attorney asked..I asked for clarification he said I am appearing allusive.  He decides to have me play tape prior to 5th..Judge claims court reporter cant hear it..Attorney has 5 min to find a way to make it louder..Do you think he should have listened to it first??? Now I get 6 hrs a week and every other weekend.  

Apparently the way I found out was worse than the act itself...

Tonight for the first time in 8 yrs. Its a me & a bottle of jack daniels...I cant even to begin to describe what I am feeling

I have been hit with false accusations of domestic violence, when wife learned I went to file for divorce. PFA temp order was issued with hearing on this Tuesday. Child has been snatched from me w/ no visitation. On Friday 230 I get a call from attorney he cant be there but will send partner.  Partner is not familiar w/ case, asked I arrive 15 min early...great....I can prove claims are false, tape recorded alleged abusive conversation with wifes knowledge.  I am 99.9% certain I can beat this.  If I am successful, I had asked the stand in attny to immediately file a emergency order for custody.  He states he is only representing me in the PFA allegation, I need to speak w/ primary attorney...I cant do this as trial is scheduled before he comes back.  Since he is not willing to do it, I will but dont know the proper procedure.
Must I file paperwork prior to trial "in case" I prove my case? Could I ask for an Ex Parte Motion, must papers be filed?? Or can I just state Wife has used court as weapon to keep child away. Pray for understanding?  At end of rope.Painted me as a monster in the PFA claim.never a parking ticket...14 different community orginizations, local professional being ripped apart because I caught wife in affair set up by mother in law...THIS IS NOT RIGHT...everywhere I turn I hit roadblocks..PLEASE HELP!!