I am not dating my wifes sister. I am dating my wifes brother's ex-wife. My children have expressed to me that the uncle my wifes brother calls me very bad things and tells my children I do not love them. My ex-mother in law tells my children your daddy does not love you. My ex-wife tells the children daddy does not love you anymore. I have been brought to court for threats against my ex-brother in laws life. I would not waste my life threatening anyone. Life is short we are here for a brief visit. All I want is to be happy. I tried to make my marriage work. I spent 22 years of my life with the same woman. I posted here for help not to be judged. God will judge me in his time. I am not perfect, but I have finally found my best friend and love of my life. My ex-brother in laws relationship with his wife is and was over; as was mine before we started our friendship. I will see my children because, I have been to court since my original post and the judge stated that "who I date or who my ex-wife dates is our own business and not the courts". The children have been and are still in therapy. Some people go an entire lifetime married to someone they do't even like anymore just for the children. I will not live my life without love. I will love my children until the day I die. Post opinions, I have no problem but, if you live in a glass house please do not throw stones at me. PS. my childrens mother is a Great mom and always will be. I'm just not in love with her.
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Custody Issues / I can't see my girls because I am going to marry my ex-sister in law.
May 30, 2007, 07:56:40 AM
Help Please,
I have been married for seventeen years and with this person since February 1985. Over the years I fell out of love with my very soon to be ex-wife. During the past ten years I fell in love with my sister in law who is now going through a divorce. We have become best friends over the past decade. The issue at hand is my two daughters ages 10 and 7. The girls have been brainwashed repeatedly by the mother, grandmother, grandfather, and brother about me destroying the two families. Everytime I go to pick up the kids I get an order of protection violation or criminal charges against me. The judge in New York stated that I can visit the children but, I can't bring them to see thier Aunt who I am dating an will soon marry. I know this is complicated but if somone has gone through this experience I would appreciate any input. I love my children unconditionally and I want the same from them. I know they are confused but brainwashing from the other side does not help.
I did not explain in the first posting that during my marriage both of us have been verbally and physically abusive towards each other over the years. I left the marriage in 2003 for a period of seven months. During the seven months we decided to give it a second chance for the children's sake but, soon after the relationship became poison. We have not had any kind of love for over five years and the children notice this regularly. I did not want my children to live with parents that hate each other. Some of my family told me to stay with her just for the sake of the children. Her family is telling the kids that since I love their aunt this is incest. The aunt has no blood relation to me.
THE AUNT IS NOT MY EX-WIFES SISTER, SHE IS HER BROTHERS EX -WIFE, NO BLOOD RELATIONS.
I just want to see the kids and slowly have them adjust as best as possible.
I have been married for seventeen years and with this person since February 1985. Over the years I fell out of love with my very soon to be ex-wife. During the past ten years I fell in love with my sister in law who is now going through a divorce. We have become best friends over the past decade. The issue at hand is my two daughters ages 10 and 7. The girls have been brainwashed repeatedly by the mother, grandmother, grandfather, and brother about me destroying the two families. Everytime I go to pick up the kids I get an order of protection violation or criminal charges against me. The judge in New York stated that I can visit the children but, I can't bring them to see thier Aunt who I am dating an will soon marry. I know this is complicated but if somone has gone through this experience I would appreciate any input. I love my children unconditionally and I want the same from them. I know they are confused but brainwashing from the other side does not help.
I did not explain in the first posting that during my marriage both of us have been verbally and physically abusive towards each other over the years. I left the marriage in 2003 for a period of seven months. During the seven months we decided to give it a second chance for the children's sake but, soon after the relationship became poison. We have not had any kind of love for over five years and the children notice this regularly. I did not want my children to live with parents that hate each other. Some of my family told me to stay with her just for the sake of the children. Her family is telling the kids that since I love their aunt this is incest. The aunt has no blood relation to me.
THE AUNT IS NOT MY EX-WIFES SISTER, SHE IS HER BROTHERS EX -WIFE, NO BLOOD RELATIONS.
I just want to see the kids and slowly have them adjust as best as possible.
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