>No experience here, but I'd like to put out a few what if's.
>
>
>Are you allowed to appeal a child support decision within an
>alloted time period?
We just got out of court May 24th and just got the tax return June 8th, I am not worried about any deadlines at this point.
>
>What if you appealed the decision based on the newly
>discovered facts, could you handle that case?
No I would hire an attorney and request reimbursement of my legal fees, considering I am the party who was misled in the originial evaluation.
>
>What if you turned over the information to the child support
>division and asked for an appointment to review information?
I have never heard of this. The only relationship I have with CSE is them withholding the support from my payroll (required in my county). I was not aware I could ask them to lower my support?
>
>I don't recall whether you said your state is a shared income
>state or not, but what if you prove she is hiding income-
>wouldn't that increase the 'pool' and therefore cause your CS
>to go up?
No, the reverse would happen and my CS would be lowered. If by "pool" you mean the number the state decides the kids get from both parents, it would only increase her side. I was 100% honest my 'pool' share would not change. CA bases CS on net income and adjusts for timeshare.
>
>Maybe you should call the court house, explain the situation
>and go from there. Maybe call to talk to the DCSE attorney and
>ask for their help in the matter. I wouldn't let her get away
>with falsifyng info to get more $$ out of you. IRS might be
>interested to know they are falsifying tax returns, as well.
I want to do the discovery. I want to see exactly what else she is hiding. I do not trust her tax return, anymore than I should have trusted her I&E, and definitely no more than her 'word'.
I did find this article on the American Bar Association:
http://www.abanet.org/family/newsletters/2005/Feb_EthicalDilemma.pdf
This leads me to believe that I *could* just inform her attornye (she had representation) and he would be obliged to have the financials corrected. But I do not want her financials adjusted to her tax return, because I do not trust her tax return is accurate either.
Her attorney was a snake in court, we had to take one issue in front the judge and she totally sided with me. At this point I do not want a half azz fix, I want her financial records to be as accurate and honest as mine.
It is really not even about the CS amount. It is about the constant LYING and GREED and PAS. Her attorney kept offering me "deals" to save me CS, I looked him straight and told him "I will pay whatever I have to pay". He got the oddest look. I do not wish to skirt my responsibilities, but I also do not want to allow this person to cheat the entire system and get away with it and REWARDED for it.
>
>
>Are you allowed to appeal a child support decision within an
>alloted time period?
We just got out of court May 24th and just got the tax return June 8th, I am not worried about any deadlines at this point.
>
>What if you appealed the decision based on the newly
>discovered facts, could you handle that case?
No I would hire an attorney and request reimbursement of my legal fees, considering I am the party who was misled in the originial evaluation.
>
>What if you turned over the information to the child support
>division and asked for an appointment to review information?
I have never heard of this. The only relationship I have with CSE is them withholding the support from my payroll (required in my county). I was not aware I could ask them to lower my support?
>
>I don't recall whether you said your state is a shared income
>state or not, but what if you prove she is hiding income-
>wouldn't that increase the 'pool' and therefore cause your CS
>to go up?
No, the reverse would happen and my CS would be lowered. If by "pool" you mean the number the state decides the kids get from both parents, it would only increase her side. I was 100% honest my 'pool' share would not change. CA bases CS on net income and adjusts for timeshare.
>
>Maybe you should call the court house, explain the situation
>and go from there. Maybe call to talk to the DCSE attorney and
>ask for their help in the matter. I wouldn't let her get away
>with falsifyng info to get more $$ out of you. IRS might be
>interested to know they are falsifying tax returns, as well.
I want to do the discovery. I want to see exactly what else she is hiding. I do not trust her tax return, anymore than I should have trusted her I&E, and definitely no more than her 'word'.
I did find this article on the American Bar Association:
http://www.abanet.org/family/newsletters/2005/Feb_EthicalDilemma.pdf
This leads me to believe that I *could* just inform her attornye (she had representation) and he would be obliged to have the financials corrected. But I do not want her financials adjusted to her tax return, because I do not trust her tax return is accurate either.
Her attorney was a snake in court, we had to take one issue in front the judge and she totally sided with me. At this point I do not want a half azz fix, I want her financial records to be as accurate and honest as mine.
It is really not even about the CS amount. It is about the constant LYING and GREED and PAS. Her attorney kept offering me "deals" to save me CS, I looked him straight and told him "I will pay whatever I have to pay". He got the oddest look. I do not wish to skirt my responsibilities, but I also do not want to allow this person to cheat the entire system and get away with it and REWARDED for it.