I live in Wayne County North Carolina and have an 15 month old son. Paternity has been proven and I am paying child support and carrying him on health and dental insurance as required by the court order. However, I have tried repeatedly to see him and handle things civilly with his mother without having to go to court. I have exhausted all resources and do not have the money to hire a lawyer just for a consultation. She is not cooperative and refuses to get in contact or allow me to see him. Need to know what papers I can file myself and where to find them to achieve visitation. Also, I heard that if she and the child are living in the other state for 6 months, we then have to file things through that court system and their laws; is this true? If so, what are my options? Please someone help me.