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Heloo everyone, I was married for a year before leaving y wife due to personal\family problems. It has been about a year since we have been apart. In the begining i wasn't able to see my daughter that much because her mom would say that she couldn't bare to see me. Once I started having visitation every other sunday I approached her about the baby staying over and the baby going places with me. There were several reasons why she objected to this, mostly because of how angry she was with me, and now because of my new GF. We have managed to barely get along for the baby's sake until now. A month ago I asked for more visitiation and she told me i needed to pay her more support.  I bring over bags and bags of groceries for me daughter every other week when i get paid, this is support we agreed on. she did eventually let me end up having the baby on weekends, but not without moaning and groaning. Last weekend we got into a fight over who was going to and who had rights to keep the baby. She now went into court and filed for custody and emailed me to tell me about it. this was much to my surprise as we had decided to settle all this through an uncontested divorce. Anyways, I have a lot against her, including the fact that their is a weekend alchoholic living in the house, an email trail of her blatantly puting herself above the baby, a trail or receipts of my support for my daughter, an email trail of me constantly asking what else i can do for my daughter (clothers, dr's bills, etc) with her saying she had enough. And now me just finding out that she let the baby go 10 months without health insurance without telling me so, when i had offered to put the baby under my health insurance plan. She has also publicly announced to everyone that she is going to sleep (for the lack of a better word) with random guys that I am friends with or work with in the fire department. So, I am waiting for the paperwork so I can start speaking to lawyers, but what else should I be doing for the time being? this is all casuing me to lose sleep, loss of apetite and additional stress because I wonder what will happen to my daughter if i lose. Thanks for listening, any advice is appreciated.