Hi,
My fiance and his ex wife have 2 children with joint custody in her care. We see them biweekly weekends and once a week. We are dealing with harrassing emails which accuse him of things that he has not done, for example pushing his son down hard, cursing at his son. Events are twisted, exaggerated, made up. There is SO much more to this story that I cannot possibly get into but to shorten things up here is the thing that scares me and my questions related to this. He was issued an emergency protection order/police came to his place of work to escort him to retrieve his belongings from their home (the start of the divorce proceedings), 2 years ago without any or evidence of abuse (he has looked into this, no one can tell him why he received this) and I am afraid that she is leading up to something serious again. How can we protect ourselves? What should we be doing? We have been seeing a psychologist to try to help us deal with the relationship that we must have with her which is where we first heard of BPD. We have been to a child psychologist to help us understand how we can better relate to the children who, we think are told things about us and are told not to say anything to us. We want to help them if they are stressed. What else are we to do - how can we be proactive if she is leading up to something?
Thanks in advance - this is frusturating!!
Grace
My fiance and his ex wife have 2 children with joint custody in her care. We see them biweekly weekends and once a week. We are dealing with harrassing emails which accuse him of things that he has not done, for example pushing his son down hard, cursing at his son. Events are twisted, exaggerated, made up. There is SO much more to this story that I cannot possibly get into but to shorten things up here is the thing that scares me and my questions related to this. He was issued an emergency protection order/police came to his place of work to escort him to retrieve his belongings from their home (the start of the divorce proceedings), 2 years ago without any or evidence of abuse (he has looked into this, no one can tell him why he received this) and I am afraid that she is leading up to something serious again. How can we protect ourselves? What should we be doing? We have been seeing a psychologist to try to help us deal with the relationship that we must have with her which is where we first heard of BPD. We have been to a child psychologist to help us understand how we can better relate to the children who, we think are told things about us and are told not to say anything to us. We want to help them if they are stressed. What else are we to do - how can we be proactive if she is leading up to something?
Thanks in advance - this is frusturating!!
Grace