My husband and his Ex are Joint Managing Conservators of their son. We live within 15-20 miles of the therapist. His son started seeing the therapist before I came into the picture but I think my husband said that he did speak to the therapist on his son's first visit, in 2004.
We have sent many letters to this therapist trying to show him my husbands side of things since he has only ever heard from the Ex. In each letter my husband has stated that he would love to be a part of his son's sessions with the therapist but no response.
His son's diagnosis is really unknown to us. His Ex works as a teacher at their son's school and has everyone there thinking she (and the son) are the innocent party and was always abused. I believe she had one of her friends (another teacher or counselor) at his school state that he has ADHD and dysgraphia but we really dont know.
The Ex is the type to take the son to the Dr. at least 8-10 times a month for really no reason. I would say she has all the signs of Munchausen, or either she uses his "sickness" and trips to the Dr. as a way of denying my husbands visitation with his son. Being the "always have to document everything" type of person I am, I have saved and turned over to the attorneys each email that the Ex states their son was sick and wouldnt be at visitation. Most of those I have matched up with the Dr. records. Many times he didnt go to the Dr. when she said he did and when he went, there was no "real sickness".
I have received most of the medical reports and the only reason that his sons goes to the Dr is for a cough and yellow/green sinus drainage.
The Ex started denying the visitations when she found out we were recording on video the pick up and drop off on the visitations. I guess she figured it would be hard to get others to believe that their son was screaming and crying and didnt want to go with his father, when the video showed differently!! LOL
The Ex also has a way of telling others that my husband was abusive to her so thats another reason we recorded, was to protect him from her lies...again!
This is all so draining on a person...how do people deal with this for so long!!
We have sent many letters to this therapist trying to show him my husbands side of things since he has only ever heard from the Ex. In each letter my husband has stated that he would love to be a part of his son's sessions with the therapist but no response.
His son's diagnosis is really unknown to us. His Ex works as a teacher at their son's school and has everyone there thinking she (and the son) are the innocent party and was always abused. I believe she had one of her friends (another teacher or counselor) at his school state that he has ADHD and dysgraphia but we really dont know.
The Ex is the type to take the son to the Dr. at least 8-10 times a month for really no reason. I would say she has all the signs of Munchausen, or either she uses his "sickness" and trips to the Dr. as a way of denying my husbands visitation with his son. Being the "always have to document everything" type of person I am, I have saved and turned over to the attorneys each email that the Ex states their son was sick and wouldnt be at visitation. Most of those I have matched up with the Dr. records. Many times he didnt go to the Dr. when she said he did and when he went, there was no "real sickness".
I have received most of the medical reports and the only reason that his sons goes to the Dr is for a cough and yellow/green sinus drainage.
The Ex started denying the visitations when she found out we were recording on video the pick up and drop off on the visitations. I guess she figured it would be hard to get others to believe that their son was screaming and crying and didnt want to go with his father, when the video showed differently!! LOL
The Ex also has a way of telling others that my husband was abusive to her so thats another reason we recorded, was to protect him from her lies...again!
This is all so draining on a person...how do people deal with this for so long!!