I am in the middle of a divorce but do not have an attorney. I moved out she kept everything, so I am starting all over then she fabricated a story that I made a threat to her so she got a protection order which automatically gave her custody of our 12 year old son. so after that she controlled when, where and how long I see my son and pick up and drop off location. she would have me pick him up at 1:30 in the morning at her house and either take him to school the next morning or drop him off in the afternoons at her house on days he did not have school and then he would stay with me every other weekend.
This worked great for awhile she filed for divorce and when we went to court she had her attorney postpone the court date. her attorney advised me that it was postponed and I would have to start paying child support which I did for two months and everything was fine, then I tried this legal advice council and they advised me I should not be paying child support until ordered by the court. So I informed my wife I was going to hold off on the child support until we go to court she then called the police and said I violated the protection order Because I left some tuition papers on her door for my son( she was not home) so the police arrested me, I went to court they issued another No Contact Order for 2 years and I can't call or talk to my son she won't let him call me. I have to go to Domestic Violence classes and pay for those every month plus the fines from this whole mess and I have never had anything violent in my life. I make alright money but I am broke from having to start over plus sitting in jail over this I missed work. All the attorney's want $7500.00+ up front attorneys I just don't have it and have no means to get it. I don't know what to do? Do I start paying the support again? Do I not? Somebody please help it has been 2 months since I have heard from my son and if I try to contact him she wii call the police, And I can't afford to go to jail again.
This worked great for awhile she filed for divorce and when we went to court she had her attorney postpone the court date. her attorney advised me that it was postponed and I would have to start paying child support which I did for two months and everything was fine, then I tried this legal advice council and they advised me I should not be paying child support until ordered by the court. So I informed my wife I was going to hold off on the child support until we go to court she then called the police and said I violated the protection order Because I left some tuition papers on her door for my son( she was not home) so the police arrested me, I went to court they issued another No Contact Order for 2 years and I can't call or talk to my son she won't let him call me. I have to go to Domestic Violence classes and pay for those every month plus the fines from this whole mess and I have never had anything violent in my life. I make alright money but I am broke from having to start over plus sitting in jail over this I missed work. All the attorney's want $7500.00+ up front attorneys I just don't have it and have no means to get it. I don't know what to do? Do I start paying the support again? Do I not? Somebody please help it has been 2 months since I have heard from my son and if I try to contact him she wii call the police, And I can't afford to go to jail again.