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#1
Dear Socrateaser / Just wanted to let you know
Sep 26, 2007, 11:03:34 AM
I know you are super busy but I wanted to tell you that after 2 1/2 years I finally got my divorce and 50/50 joint legal/physical custody of my children they still say they want to come live with me but things have gotten better for me and I will be returning to Federal LE work in a few months.

You were right I had to fight like hell but I feel like I have won.

Thanks for all the advice.

A rich man is one whom when his pockets are empty his children fill his arms
#2
Second Families / None of it matters
Sep 26, 2007, 11:57:46 AM
I thought I knew it all when I got married. I new what was real and not. I knew where my life was going and ending, I knew it all.

Then reality set in!

Drugs and physical abuse destroyed what I KNEW would be my future.

You have one advantage here you know how your husband acts towards his x, put yourself in her shoes. Would you be happy being treat the same way he treats her?

I dont care how much he prfesses his love or how he shows it, TRUE LOVE only come one way.

True love is not what you and your Husband have. You will only understand the meaning of true love when you set you eyes on your new baby, that is when your heart will swell, your palms will sweat, YOU WILL CRY tears of joy. This is when you realize just how angry and violent you can become when something threatens your children.
When you have that little one in your arms you will see, "None of it matters, but them"

I wish you both well and hope you can be a happy healthy family, Good Luck.

"A rich man is one whom when his pockets are empty his children fill his arms"