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how to deal a very bitter and vendictive ex. the children are not happy their by thier admition. it seems that they are in the ex's way. however that party will never give them up as long as they can make life harder mentally and financialy for me. regardless of the feelings of the children. my oldest son will be 10 years old november 17, he wishes to live with me and gives my ex as hard time as he can give becouse of it. I tell him to obey and not to back talk just give me time and iI will try to get him out of there. Am I wrong in telling him that. Please i am desperate for answers. there so many issues at hand I really don't know where to start.

Thank you for your reply.
I agree that reading some of the available info. is best.
I was pretty sure no court would listen to child and that is why i have not reported it.
I try to talk to my Ex. about these things only to get their deffenses up.
I have sense posting original message, gone back and read some of the others on this board.
I really interested in the shared custody, 1 week alternating!

I have been divorced around two years. I am one of those text book cases of fathers that did not fight hard enough for the custody of my children. I could give alot of excuses or reseans why,but it doesn't make a differance. short and sweet! What i can i do to get my children out of what i think is a bad situation! Exwife has live in boyfriend on and off! boyfriend verbally abussive to her and children! I have evadence, only my childrens comments. And as normal I have no money to fight with.
I pay 195.00 dollars per week child support,Texas. She keeps telling my oldest son that she is going to send him to live with me only as a threat to him and never follows through.