I have an ex that is being a little stubborn (to put it mildly) with my visitation rights.
The issues is thus: I have had problems with my ex trying to be in my life constantly, and I am really fed up with it. We had been using verbal agreements for my visitation, but now she has moved to OK 6 hours (roughly) away. I have been keeping my daughter for X-mas, but now that seems unlikely. We (my fiancee and I) went to get a copy of the origional agreement for child support and visitation. In this document, under the section of "irrespective of distance" it states that I get her on Even years the day she gets out of school at noon, untill 6pm Dec 26'th, and on odd years, from nood Dec 26 till the day before she returns to school at 6pm. Additionally, it states that when my 'posession' of my daughter begins, I am to pick her up from her residence, and at the end of my 'posession' the ex is to pick her up from my residence.
That last part is causing all the problems, as she is just being quite stubborn and threatening with the whole issue of picking her up. I even offered to return her to OK myself if she could reimburse me with the costs of the return round trip.
Any advice on what I should do? I have sought out a lawyer in this matter as well, but that is a few days away, and I'd like to hear some options to arm myself with my initial consultation with this lawyer.
Thanks in advance
TD
The issues is thus: I have had problems with my ex trying to be in my life constantly, and I am really fed up with it. We had been using verbal agreements for my visitation, but now she has moved to OK 6 hours (roughly) away. I have been keeping my daughter for X-mas, but now that seems unlikely. We (my fiancee and I) went to get a copy of the origional agreement for child support and visitation. In this document, under the section of "irrespective of distance" it states that I get her on Even years the day she gets out of school at noon, untill 6pm Dec 26'th, and on odd years, from nood Dec 26 till the day before she returns to school at 6pm. Additionally, it states that when my 'posession' of my daughter begins, I am to pick her up from her residence, and at the end of my 'posession' the ex is to pick her up from my residence.
That last part is causing all the problems, as she is just being quite stubborn and threatening with the whole issue of picking her up. I even offered to return her to OK myself if she could reimburse me with the costs of the return round trip.
Any advice on what I should do? I have sought out a lawyer in this matter as well, but that is a few days away, and I'd like to hear some options to arm myself with my initial consultation with this lawyer.
Thanks in advance
TD