Hello All!
>
> I am going through a divorce with someone that in my opinion fits the
> description of borderline personality. Please tell me if what I am
> experiencing sounds familar:
>
> 1. I am going on my 3rd restraining order, 2 of which have been
> voluntarily dismissed by my x wife and all have been fictitious
> stories made up by her for her to usurp the system to get what she
> wants. The worst part is the courts are so biased when it comes to
> domestic, you are automatically guilty. I now have a 1 year
> restraining order and having to attend anger management classes
> without ever doing ANYTHING !!!! This seems like a bad nightmare!
>
> 2. When we were speaking, everything I said would be twisted. When
> she told her version of the storie at a later point, its almost like
> she was not even in the conversation.
>
> 3. Extreme Mood swings !!!! One minute she says she can't live
> without you, the next she is pulling a knife and threatening to kill.
>
> 4. She is using my daughter as a tool to get what she wants.
>
> 5. She has accused me of molesting my 4 year old little girl, to the
> point where she has taken her to the doctor to have her examined.
> Another obvious fictitious storie.
>
> 6. She has had an affair and rubs it in my face.
>
> 7. She runs from responsibility.
>
> 8. When she was still living at home, relentless spending spree's.
>
> And the list goes on and on as I am sure some of you know.
>
> What scares me to death is the state of florida's fifteenth judicial
> court has granted these orders and custody of my poor little girl to
> my ex wife without ever doing a bit of investigation into her or my
> past. She has been in several mental institutions and has been
> baccaracted before and the state will not even here what I have to
> say. This is a disgrace to our judicial system and I want to help
> myself and anyone else that may have to experience what I am and make
> the REAL victims in these cases heard.
>
> How can we make a difference?
> Media? I don't know.....Will anyone please help with ideas of how to
> get to the media and bring this into the open here in Florida and
> make the judges actually do their job and investigate and listen to
> both sides, psych evals, anything...
>
> My childs future is in the hands of this whirlwind and it is not fair
> to her not to be able to see her father because her mother is SICK!
>
> Please help! I don't know what else to do.
>
> Dave =)
>
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>
> I am going through a divorce with someone that in my opinion fits the
> description of borderline personality. Please tell me if what I am
> experiencing sounds familar:
>
> 1. I am going on my 3rd restraining order, 2 of which have been
> voluntarily dismissed by my x wife and all have been fictitious
> stories made up by her for her to usurp the system to get what she
> wants. The worst part is the courts are so biased when it comes to
> domestic, you are automatically guilty. I now have a 1 year
> restraining order and having to attend anger management classes
> without ever doing ANYTHING !!!! This seems like a bad nightmare!
>
> 2. When we were speaking, everything I said would be twisted. When
> she told her version of the storie at a later point, its almost like
> she was not even in the conversation.
>
> 3. Extreme Mood swings !!!! One minute she says she can't live
> without you, the next she is pulling a knife and threatening to kill.
>
> 4. She is using my daughter as a tool to get what she wants.
>
> 5. She has accused me of molesting my 4 year old little girl, to the
> point where she has taken her to the doctor to have her examined.
> Another obvious fictitious storie.
>
> 6. She has had an affair and rubs it in my face.
>
> 7. She runs from responsibility.
>
> 8. When she was still living at home, relentless spending spree's.
>
> And the list goes on and on as I am sure some of you know.
>
> What scares me to death is the state of florida's fifteenth judicial
> court has granted these orders and custody of my poor little girl to
> my ex wife without ever doing a bit of investigation into her or my
> past. She has been in several mental institutions and has been
> baccaracted before and the state will not even here what I have to
> say. This is a disgrace to our judicial system and I want to help
> myself and anyone else that may have to experience what I am and make
> the REAL victims in these cases heard.
>
> How can we make a difference?
> Media? I don't know.....Will anyone please help with ideas of how to
> get to the media and bring this into the open here in Florida and
> make the judges actually do their job and investigate and listen to
> both sides, psych evals, anything...
>
> My childs future is in the hands of this whirlwind and it is not fair
> to her not to be able to see her father because her mother is SICK!
>
> Please help! I don't know what else to do.
>
> Dave =)
>
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