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Thanks for responding.  It is good to know there are other people out there- I have felt very overwhelmed by this.  Everyone seems to think that moms should have their kids (not that I disagree) and I feel very judged.  :+

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>Unfortunately with child support, I know a lot of men feel the
>same way you do and they are broke to, and some goes for
>visitation.
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My ex makes over 75K a year; I make a third of that.  He's not broke, not when through our entire marriage I was not allowed on his accounts and had no access to the marital funds.  But again to fight that would have meant excessive legal fees.

Oh well, it's all water under the bridge now.

I am certainly no "expert" but I will be moving back home to Savannah on March 1.  

S KEENE-ROBERTS
BEN'S MOM

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>Sadly, if you move you will probably have to pay for all
>transportation.  I take it you didn't have "moving" situations
>added to the parenting plan?  What is your CO visitation?
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There is a provision in the parenting plan for when I move.  He has to bring my son half way, where ever I go to and I can see him once a month plus all holiday visitiation that's spelled out.  I definately knew I was moving and made sure that was in there.

I have been in much prayer about my ex's vindicitve nature and I believe He moves for the good of those who love Him.  For the first time in well over a year, Ex talked to me on the phone nicely and reasonably about all this.  Let's see if it continues....


S KEENE-ROBERTS
BEN'S MOM

I have a 4 year old and the divorce was final just this week.  I'm a bit over whelmed by the whole thing.  I did not lose custody based on factors that would indicate I'm not a good mom- in fact quite the opposite.  After leaving my home in FL to move to Miss, where my husband is from, when he left me, I was devastated emotionally and financially.  After much soul searching and discussion, I decided to allow my son to stay with his dad for now.

I will now be able to move back home near my parents and pursue a higher education (law school!)  But because my ex is controlling and vinidictive, he will not allow my son to see me except for specific CO visitation.  And my wages are being garnished.  I had no idea (lawyers suck) and I'm broke and embarrassed!  

Could use a little support!

S KEENE-ROBERTS
BEN'S MOM