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hello, my wife and i and three children live in north carolina. today i recieved a notice from mo. child support enforcement. the letter was concerning back support for my daughter from a previous marriage, this is a shock to me as i have not seen or heard from either since my ex-wife took her and left the state where custody and support were ordered a little over ten years ago. i would like to know why after all this time, i am just now being notified of her where abouts?also what are my rights and what course of action should i pursue being they live in mo., i  in nc., and the original order was from va.? any help or direction would be greatly appreciated.
thank you,
tom

i did go to look for my child and sent money to her mother, in hopes that it would reach my daughter. gave up all i had on the east coast and went to the west coast when i tracked her to vegas , only to find that she was gone with a different man( she had left the one she ran off with). no money, exhausted mentally and physically i came home to the east coast to try and start over, in hopes that one day i would find her. ten years and counting and not a day goes by that i do not wonder where she is and how she is doing. ten years i send x-mas, birth-day , valentines,ect... to her grandmother in hopes that it will be passed on only to hear nothing! now, after getting a start on a new life(still sending things to grandmother)trying to take care of my new family she surrafaces with these legalities as if i am the one who has been in the wrong all this time! i am tired and it is taking a toll on my family! yet i still only know that she is somewhere in mo.i would give anything for her to come and live with us,to be able to meet and grow up with her new brother and sister.

than you, i have already gotten contact info. for the state of the original order. they did track me through my ssn. i intend to seek legal advice. i did try to find them for the first five years, but kept running into dead ends...i am not trying to avoid anything or escape it where my daughter is concerned. it just struck me as odd that after ten years she decided to try to find me or collect when she was not concerned about the feelings of our daughter or my feelings until now. it is all just frustraiting.
thanks

not disputing the order... but it was to be sent to my ex, not the court. not sure how to send something to someone if you do not even know what state they are in?i just do not understand why she has surrfaced all of a sudden? also if she can tell cse my address why not contact me or let my daughter contact me? this is someone who took my daughter three weeeks after the court order and has not been seen or heard from til now....?i did not tell her to run away with another man with my daughter in tow. i am still fairly close to where the original order was issued.

      hello, my wife and i and three children live in north carolina. today i recieved a notice from mo. child support enforcement. the letter was concerning back support for my daughter from a previous marriage, this is a shock to me as i have not seen or heard from either since my ex-wife took her and left the state where custody and support were ordered a little over ten years ago. i would like to know why after all this time, i am just now being notified of her where abouts?also what are my rights and what course of action should i pursue being they live in mo., i in nc., and the original order was from va.? any help or direction would be greatly appreciated.
thank you,
tom