So my husband didnt "text" her back. Its been 3 week and nj has made no other attempt to see her kids. I dont think it was her that sent it anyway her bf is an even bigger nj. So now my husband is waiting for court date. What are his chance of getting sole custody? she hasnt seen or tried to contact s11 or d9 for over 1 year.not even a xmas or bday card. Appartenly doesnt really want to see them.