I just have a couple questions.
Im married to a wonderful man with 3 children from a previous marriage that live with us .he has custody and she is supposed to have them every other weekend and and hour on wednesdays and its supposed to be supervised because she had a problem with drugs when they got divorced. well when i met him she had the oldest b/c she said she wanted to live with her and my husband thought she had cleaned up so then he had two and we started taking them to see her again but she didn't have a supervisor ( i didnt know at the time she was supposed to) anyway that went on from march to the beginning of august when school started and the oldest wanted to come live with us about a month went by and we didnt hear anything from their real mother and around the same time we were letting the girls sleep together till we could buy a new bed for the oldest and thats when we caught them doing "things" to each other anyway we took them to a specialist and their mother is currently under investigation for sexual abuse. their counselor told us that if she did call or come by to tell her we have plans with the kids or make an excuse but not to tell her that she couldnt see the kids. seven and a half months and 3 holidays and two of their birthdays have passed since she has had any contact with them or us and its been about 3 years without child support . my husband is wanting to pursue termination of her parental rights and i am willing to adopt them but we dont know how to go about either one of those things or what the law in oklahoma is on what the grounds are for terminating parental rights,or if there is even any chance of making a case against her and getting this done.
can anyone please offer me any advice or information on laws in oklahoma ?
Im married to a wonderful man with 3 children from a previous marriage that live with us .he has custody and she is supposed to have them every other weekend and and hour on wednesdays and its supposed to be supervised because she had a problem with drugs when they got divorced. well when i met him she had the oldest b/c she said she wanted to live with her and my husband thought she had cleaned up so then he had two and we started taking them to see her again but she didn't have a supervisor ( i didnt know at the time she was supposed to) anyway that went on from march to the beginning of august when school started and the oldest wanted to come live with us about a month went by and we didnt hear anything from their real mother and around the same time we were letting the girls sleep together till we could buy a new bed for the oldest and thats when we caught them doing "things" to each other anyway we took them to a specialist and their mother is currently under investigation for sexual abuse. their counselor told us that if she did call or come by to tell her we have plans with the kids or make an excuse but not to tell her that she couldnt see the kids. seven and a half months and 3 holidays and two of their birthdays have passed since she has had any contact with them or us and its been about 3 years without child support . my husband is wanting to pursue termination of her parental rights and i am willing to adopt them but we dont know how to go about either one of those things or what the law in oklahoma is on what the grounds are for terminating parental rights,or if there is even any chance of making a case against her and getting this done.
can anyone please offer me any advice or information on laws in oklahoma ?