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worried grammy in Florica
worried grammy in Florica
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Child Support Issues / Filed for Modification, but behind...
Apr 06, 2008, 08:02:09 PM
Hi,
My son was divorced in 2001 inFlorida. He was abused
physically and emotionally by his ex and she had various affairs during the marriage. None of this matters in a Florida Courtroom. Their son
is 7 and cries and often begs to live with his father. As not to take a lot
of your time, the situation is horrible. My son has learned that it is best
not to go against her on anything, or his time with his son and his
transportation distance will be greatly affected. When they were divorced, my son's income was close to $40,000 and he filled out all required financial paperwork. She got by without filling out a financial workup, was working, and living in a rent-free house provided by her new boyfriend. The judge gave her credit for $600 per month. My son is requesting a CS review as his income has decreased each year since the divorce to $20,000 for 2007. He went back to the job where he was during the divorce, but the company went coperate, and the base salary and commission has been revamped. The pay is very low now. She is supposed to served this week. The person doing the mediation is the
same as in 2001 and she was friends with the ex and her lawyer. I know that it is going to be horrible for him for doing this, but he cannot manage to pay $475 per month plus half of the medical expenses. He has stayed current until the past 3 months. She has withheld $300 worth of medical expenses, as she has done several times in the past. I am afraid that he will be put in jail even though he has already filed his request. She will file paperwork for this. She says that she receives no pay for working in her husband's real estate office (same guy), has worked last year in a exercise gym, and recently opened her own exercies business. We have public records showing her signature on several documents from his office; she says that she is working for him for free. She drives a car that is in his name. I fear that once again, she will get by with saying that she has no income. My son is broke financially and broken emotionally. He is great with his son; they are very close.
Any advice? Florida is not father/child friendly.
A nervous grammy in NW Florida
My son was divorced in 2001 inFlorida. He was abused
physically and emotionally by his ex and she had various affairs during the marriage. None of this matters in a Florida Courtroom. Their son
is 7 and cries and often begs to live with his father. As not to take a lot
of your time, the situation is horrible. My son has learned that it is best
not to go against her on anything, or his time with his son and his
transportation distance will be greatly affected. When they were divorced, my son's income was close to $40,000 and he filled out all required financial paperwork. She got by without filling out a financial workup, was working, and living in a rent-free house provided by her new boyfriend. The judge gave her credit for $600 per month. My son is requesting a CS review as his income has decreased each year since the divorce to $20,000 for 2007. He went back to the job where he was during the divorce, but the company went coperate, and the base salary and commission has been revamped. The pay is very low now. She is supposed to served this week. The person doing the mediation is the
same as in 2001 and she was friends with the ex and her lawyer. I know that it is going to be horrible for him for doing this, but he cannot manage to pay $475 per month plus half of the medical expenses. He has stayed current until the past 3 months. She has withheld $300 worth of medical expenses, as she has done several times in the past. I am afraid that he will be put in jail even though he has already filed his request. She will file paperwork for this. She says that she receives no pay for working in her husband's real estate office (same guy), has worked last year in a exercise gym, and recently opened her own exercies business. We have public records showing her signature on several documents from his office; she says that she is working for him for free. She drives a car that is in his name. I fear that once again, she will get by with saying that she has no income. My son is broke financially and broken emotionally. He is great with his son; they are very close.
Any advice? Florida is not father/child friendly.
A nervous grammy in NW Florida
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