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My son is 11 yrs old and calls me everyday just about.  He is not involved in sports and spends most of his time at the babysitters.  He basically doesn't have a social life, outside of family.  The situation that he is in is a very difficult one.  You see he is the oldest of her children she has two daughters, and the two girls that she has are fathered by my first cousin. HOW SICK IS THAT! Anyways to make a long story short, My son has two brothers that I have with my fiancee and we live about 2 hours away from son.  My son says he wants to come live with his dad andf brothers, but his mother is only in the situation for the money that's involved with the child support and welfare.  I am sorry but my son is not a paycheck.  I feel that I can provide more support for my son if he was to move in with me simply because I can be involved with sports with him and make him grow up to be a responsible young man.  Because I feel that the older he gets the more he will be teased about his sister/cousin situation.  That would be rough for a child to handle.  So what can I do about this dilemma  PLEASE HELP CONCERNED FATHER