I have 2 Girls age 9 and 13. They go to his house every other weekend and Wendsday afternoons. They are at the age where they feel neglected and verbally abused and do not like going there anymore. He works on Saturdays and his new wife watches them. She gets along with my girls but has her own schedule of things to do on Saturdays. When their father IS home, he generally does not even see the girls, he just puts them in front of a television and goes into the basement and does his own thing. He moans and complains when their activities fall out on HIS days, even tho in our divorce agreement it says he has to take them to their activities. (He does NOT, he sends his wife to, she does)
My girls get called "BRAT" all the time and NEVER seem to spend any time with their father except to go on some errands with him to a hardware store and such. Can I possibly get a Right of First Refusal or something put into the agreement by the courts to at least get my girls when he is working on "HIS" weekends and then return them to him? He will NOT agree to this and yelled so badly to my girls that they were shaking the next time they had to visit him. They don't even want to GO anymore, my 13 year old has about had it. Do you think the courts will let me reduce his visitation a bit?
My girls get called "BRAT" all the time and NEVER seem to spend any time with their father except to go on some errands with him to a hardware store and such. Can I possibly get a Right of First Refusal or something put into the agreement by the courts to at least get my girls when he is working on "HIS" weekends and then return them to him? He will NOT agree to this and yelled so badly to my girls that they were shaking the next time they had to visit him. They don't even want to GO anymore, my 13 year old has about had it. Do you think the courts will let me reduce his visitation a bit?