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Hi, it sounds like your in about the same boat I am in and have no where to turn. I have been surfing the net to try and find help but it really does not exist. There is some legistration ongoing to put an end to all of this misery but that will not help us. My daughter is 6 and will be 7 in August so she is feeling the same way yours is. My soon to be exwife took things a step farther to ensure her full custody of our child. After our first hearing the judge ordered liberal visitation for me with her having full custody. The first weekend I spent with my little girl was wone of the best times in my life and her's too. She had a blast and cried all the way home when she had to leave. I promised her that we would be back together soon which turned out to be a lie. Four days after I dropped her off the police knocked on my door and arrested me for a lewd act with a minor. The only investigation that was done was by a female cop that took a statement from my ex-wife and asked my daughter some very direct questions. I had a women in my place with me during the entire visit but they never asked anything. I spent 27 hours in jail and at my bond hearing I was released on $15,000 bail and ordered to have no contact with my daughter and was plced on house arrest. That was the 7th of March and I am still waiting for the Solicitors office to make a decision even though child services turned in their report stating they found no merit in the charge against me. I was also ordered by the family court to pay 3/4 of my monthly income in support payments along with all insurance costs and any cost associated with the home my ex-wife is living in. My ex-wife has been diagnosed with depression and stopped taking her medication but no seems to care about that. I would say that misery loves company but I would not wish this living hell on anyone. If you are still able to spend time with your daughter guard yourself and cover your own but. I wish you the very best of luck and wanted to tell you to find someone to help support you emotionally through all of this.