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#1
Thanks for your help! Let me know what you think about this... My CO says that we each are to pay 1/2 of all educational costs. I can no longer afford to pay for private school since she keeps choosing the most expensive schools in town. Her preschool was $8000. I told her I can't do it any more and she says the CO says I have to pay 1/2 but it says nothing about private school. She lives in a very nice neighborhood with a very highly rated public school. Since the CO says I have to pay 1/2 of educational will I be forced to pay for private school? She has a wealthy husband so she can afford to pay her 1/2 of an elaborate school.    
#2
Thank you so much for your response. My CO says that we must mutually agree and share in all major decisions... and that each party is to provide advance notification... Also, I told her that I could not afford to pay for private school in 03/04 so she paid for it and is now looking for that as well. She claims that she can take me to court and I will have to pay her lawyer fees. I have emails dating back to 2002 staing that not only did I not believe in sending my child to Catholic school since non of us are Catholic but that I could not afford to do so. I never agreed to it nor did I sign anything. She also feels, having nothing to do with our CO, that if she pays for something she can do what ever she wants. She is sending our child away to camp for 3 weeks (she is 9) This takes away from my visitation and it is over my birthday which I am entitled to spend with her. She feels that since I am not paying for it I have no say. My Co states that consent of both parties is required for, major educational decsions...summer school or summer camp. Basically anything except field trips which do not involve overnight. I think that she feels regardless of what the CO says I am required to pay 50/50 for everything even if I don't agree to it and it's above and beyond.
#3
April 08 was the last month I had to pay alimony to my ex-wife. She is now looking for new and creative ways to get money from me. She sent me a spread sheet with bills she said I never gave her money for dating back to 2002 for Tutoring, Dental, Medical. I unfortunately don't have checks going back that far. The only thing I can find on reimbursement is that bills need to be given to me in a reasonable amount of time but no more than 30 days after she pays them. She also does not notify me of large expenses then just asks for the money and threatens me. I think I should be notified if she is going to spend $2000 and expect $1000 from me. Can she come after me for this random stuff from 2002? And what about giving me some warning on the large expenses? Let me know if anyone has any advise. Thanks!