Thanks for your help! Let me know what you think about this... My CO says that we each are to pay 1/2 of all educational costs. I can no longer afford to pay for private school since she keeps choosing the most expensive schools in town. Her preschool was $8000. I told her I can't do it any more and she says the CO says I have to pay 1/2 but it says nothing about private school. She lives in a very nice neighborhood with a very highly rated public school. Since the CO says I have to pay 1/2 of educational will I be forced to pay for private school? She has a wealthy husband so she can afford to pay her 1/2 of an elaborate school.