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Well, She is saying that I abandoned her and the baby, and she wants medical coverage,and money. When in fact I have an email that states different. I have no money what the hell am I going to do. I can't hire an attonney in Florida. You know this is the type of stuff that makes the world a bad place. I can see why some dads go on the run. You know what I have to do is talk to an attonney out here before I do anything. The mother is not right in her head. what type of parent tells me that the baby died and that I'm not to contact her any more and then all of a sudden I'm supossed to appear in court all the way on the other side of the U.S. Rediculous!!!!!

My mom lives outside of Philly and the Baby mama lives in Florida.

Well that fine, I am ready to take responsiblity. Can I have someone represent me in court like a lawyer that I know form back home. I just had a siezure on Sat. I can't be flying anywhere. I can do the phone thing. I also would like to know what if my mother and I didn't talk. Then what, I would have a warrent out for my arest. Thats a bunch of crap.

I was just served papers in PA. I don't live ther anymore. I live in CA. What can I do???

I guess she served me with a DNA test or someting.

I live in Ca. She served me in PA. Thats the problem I have. Can I call the courts?? Let them know that I don't live there even if I could I don't have the money to fly back home.

Hello my name is Dave. I was in the military and had a one night stand. Seven months later I get the phone call. I told her that everything was going to be alright. While I was out on deployment I had three seizures. I lost contact with her but had my mom let her know what was going on. When I got back to the U.S., her friend called me and told me that the baby might not be mine, because she was with another guy the week after me. I told the baby's mom that I wanted a DNA test. Ever since then she has been sending my family and I threating messages and emails.  Which I have kept. In one of these emails she wrote that her and the baby were hit by a drunk driver and the baby past on. In the same email she said I was never to contact here and that she was not going to contact me ever again. Well I just found out that she served me at my moms house. The problem is I don't live there anymore. I live in Ca. Where do I go from here. What shoud I do?? I also don't want her to have my address because of how she has contacted my parents with there address and phone numbers.