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She has a lawyer.
Cell phone, records are printed from online acct. info.  It is from my cell to hers, and hers to mine.  Besides, that particular record would only be used to counter her already made claim I never gave her my new phone number.  lol  Unfortunately, she's lied about many things, and I'm going to discredit her.   

I am preparing vigourously...

Missouri doesn't have much in the way of specific laws regarding rules of evidence, so I'm using the Federal Rules of Evidence, among other sources, for prep.

Not only am I versing myself for their objections, I'm preparing to counter, be able cite specific law and rules and reasons.

I've tried everything but fighting for two years.  I have some serious inner turmoil with what I have to do now.  I'll find out in a month if my ego is simply over inflated, or I'm the Pro Se nightmare I'm thinking will embarrass her counsel.  Her lawyer is from a rather huge law firm, but the bonehead-ette won't even return my phone calls.  0.o

I have a multitude of follow up options if I screw this up.  I'd prefer to get it right enough for the judge, THIS time, and commence a life with my kid.

off topic: I used this forum a while back, lost/forgot id...

Yes, trial soon.  Pet has a default judgment, I filed Family Access Motion, she refused to comply with the visitation orders. (the ones she herself requested only months prior...)
St Louis County, Missouri

I have evidence I intend to use to support my argument.  Much is e-mail, postal mail, and some third party documention (phone records, paperwork from gov't entities, etc.). 
I can't seem to find info about what's required to be submitted prior to court prior to trial.  The majority of this evidence is already shared/known with, and by, the Pet.