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You know I thought about the whole kidnap thing but I just don't think anything would happen on my behalf. I am waiting to take a DNA test now so everything is on hold right this moment, but I do have a lawyer that we picked out in Fl. and says we definately have a case. I think we're just going to file a counter suit case on her and try to get full custody but it prob. won't work. Now the whole thing on her coming back to my baby's home town where I live, can they make her do that? What if she's been in fl. for 6 months but they haven't been consecutive? Is that her and my sons new residance? I really don't understand the whole residance issue.

Thanks for replying, I am 30yrs old and she is 26yrs old. She did live with me the whole time we were together. She did have a job the last time she came back but wasn't enough to help with the bills, all she helped with was food, and we got a vehicle and apartment together based on two incomes. So I was stuck paying all the bills. She did try to keep him until he was 5yrs old but the judge never ordered that. We're still waiting on the dna test. She's been in Fl. for about 2 1/2 months now. And as far as visiting them I haven't had the money two do anything at this point.

Hello my name is Justin; My x-girlfriend and I were in a relationship for about 4yrs. Half way through our relationship we had a baby, and was a perfect baby boy. About a month after the baby was born she wanted to visit her parents in Fl. wich I had no problem with. She said she was going to visit for 3 wks wich again I was ok with that. Little did I know she was coming home 3 months later with a son I barely know, again he was perfect. I was upset about it all but eventually got over it, and got closer with my son. A month later she wanted to go back to Fl. again to visit her parents with my son i was just getting close to. She was going to stay for 2wks. I was upset but eventually got over it. Again she came home later than she said. 1 month later. To make a long story short she's left me to go visit her parents with my brand new baby 4 different times and came back once when she said she was coming back. This last time she left for supposably 2 wks she never came back. Now I am hit with a $525 child support bill. And there trying to keep him until he's 5 yrs old before I can take him back to my home town. I need some information on what I should do about lawyers, child custody, child support and paying my bills. Most important my son.