My son mother and father has been planning to give my newborn son away for months before the birth. They cut all contact with me and when he was born i got a call from her attorney stating she want me to consent to adoption. I said no i will never o that and i want him. Still i haven't seen him and he is over a month old. She gave him up at birth anyway to God knows who. i know the people who has him lost a baby and now some deal was made with my son. What to do? I don't know where she is or the baby? If i do find where he is will i be kidnapping him if i take him? I cant find her to accept the summons for my custody complaint!!!!!!