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In addition, I live in Texas

As far as the status of the S.O. being around my child since she has not updated her address with the court I can't prove that she in fact lives there.  I've called the sherriff multiple times to go to her listed address but of course.... there has never been an answer.

My child support checks are sent directly to the OAG for disbursement.  As far as visitation goes I pick up and drop off my daughter at daycare.  I have expanded visitation which means I pick her up on Thursday evening and then drop her back at school Monday morning, and then I have her on Wednesdays overnight as well.  I never have to visit my ex's home.  She has accused me at least 7 times of assault, abuse, sexually abusing my child.  i've been arrested 4 times with each charge being refused by a grand jury and the DA.  Of course having these charges refused doesn't alleviate the cost of bonds and attorneys to get each individual charge taken care of.  Every time i try to see my daughter at school (which is where she works) I am told that if it is not my scheduled visitation time (i.e. Picking up on Thursday or dropping off on Monday) I am not welcome at the daycare.  I have not been allowed to participate in any of the Fathers activities because she throws a fit to her owners about my being there.  I have never missed a child support payment, never missed a visitation and I have a stable home and income (neither of which she has)  She works 20-25 hours a week at $7.50 per hour and even with my $600 a month child support payment she claims is unable to provide necessities.  Frankly, this is because she buys drugs to support her and her S.O. bf's habit.  I happen to know the person she gets her pot from and she spends in the neighborhood of $100 per week on marijuana.  This is where my child support goes to.  I'm desperate

My ex and I finalized our divorce decree July 15th of last year.  Since then she has failed 2 CPS issued drug tests (for marijuana) and signed an affadavit of use with the CPS case worker the one time she did pass the test.  Since our divorce she has moved in with a convicted sex offender (he was convicted of F2 Sexual assault of a child).  My daughter is 3 years old and I feel that the enviroment is unhealthy at best, and extremely dangerous at worst.  I have spoken with the police, CPS, and the sherriff.  She has not updated her address with the court and I can't send a subpoena to her 'new' home because I am unaware of where it even is.  No one is willing to do anything other than say you need to file something with the court.  She works in a daycare and uses drugs on her break with the aforementioned SO.  I have phone recordings, e mails, text messages and other documentation to support my concerns.  I am unable to pay $2500 retainers for a decent attorney (after being taken for over 24k in my original divorce).  Does anyone know of any help or assistance centers (pro bono family attorneys?) that could possibly help?