My wife has pushed me to the point of bankruptcy, I lost the house. She spends a fortune on Dr. bills and prescription drugs. I found a $23,000 bill she ran up when she was out of town. I didn't know anything about it but I've got to repay it.. Her dad is paying for her lawyer. How do I find help on an extremely limited budget (what she left me with)? I also found an offer to buy the house that I didn't know about. So, I could have sold the house and not lost it to foreclosure