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I started calling the month he ran to WA (about two years ago)!!  I usually call FL CSE once or twice a month for status update and it's always the same line "We sent letters to the addresses you gave us and we have tried to contact WA DOR, but I can put another request through"

I have tried to contact WA DOR, but they claim they can't talk to me becase it is a FL case.  He lives there now and I need their help too!!!   GGGRRRRR. . . .ok, sorry.

I am familiar with the legal system and am just so frusterated that the system seems out to protect the dead-beats.  He has a car ( mine died and I don't have the $600.00 to fix it), he has a nice house (his mom signed for it), he gets paid under the table (he is a "helper") while I scrimp and go without so our son can have more.  PLUS I give him full access to his son.

My ex is over $35,000 behind in CS.  There is an income deduction order in place in FL.  He has run to WA to escape paying.  I have address and phone numbers for him and have given FL DOR and CSE this information, however nothing has happened.  Is there anything else I can do?

I am on the verge of going to court to take away his parental rights, but my father ( lawyer) has advised me not to.  My ex rarely calls and hasn't seen our son in almost two years (7 months of which we lived less than 5 miles from each other).  I have never denied my ex access to our son and I let our son call his father if he ever asks.
Our son is 8 yo and is asking to call his father less and less (out of sight out of mind, broken promises and all that). 

Any advice???