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We've been under the agreement that because of the school year, ending the end of May, my wife (who asked for the separation) and I live in the same house share the bed.  I assume this is to keep the status qup for the childern.  She will mostly likely ask me to leave during the summer after we have agreed upon the separation plan.  Of course the father should leave according to society.  Sought legal counsel and I am planning on fighting for the right to stay with my kids.  This will obviously come to head and could be ugly. 
Should I propose keeping the same arrangement of living together with a plan or stipulations and rules?  Is this effective in the end?  We have a detached garage with an apartment, should I propose that I move into that space?  It would be hard on the kids as far as understanding why I assume.

We are asking the marriage counselor we've used in the past to mediate the separation plan as she calls it.  I know the odds are stacked up against me.  Help!

We've been under the agreement that because of the school year, ending the end of May, my wife (who asked for the separation) and I live in the same house share the bed.  I assume this is to keep the status qup for the childern.  She will mostly likely ask me to leave during the summer after we have agreed upon the separation plan.  Of course the father should leave according to society.  Sought legal counsel and I am planning on fighting for the right to stay with my kids.  This will obviously come to head and could be ugly. 
Should I propose keeping the same arrangement of living together with a plan or stipulations and rules?  Is this effective in the end?  We have a detached garage with an apartment, should I propose that I move into that space?  It would be hard on the kids as far as understanding why I assume.

We are asking the marriage counselor we've used in the past to mediate the separation plan as she calls it.  I know the odds are stacked up against me.  Help!

I am trying to contact a local attorney.  He will not return my calls.  I attribute this to being busy or a sign to look elsewhere.  My strange question would be: Does this mean that my spouse has already contacted him thus not returning my call.  How do I find out if he can or cannot serve me?

My wife recently told me she is unhappy in our marriage and wants to separate.  We are maintaining our current family model if you will by cohabitation.  At some point she may or may not ask me to leave.  A year ago we separated for a short period and I agreed to leave.  This time, my wife is the one with the motive and it appears she is looking for no timetable and she hasn't ruled out divorce.  It is of my opinion that she should leave the home as she is experiencing a stronger feeling and I do not want to separate and I believe we can seek counseling and work this with a plan this time.

What should I prepare for if it comes to her request to physically separate and my rights to remain at home with my children.  What are the legal and state laws regarding this. 

Please help!!!  I love my wife and children thus I have made dramatic changes in my life as I hope she will.  I might go as far as stating: I will NOT leave my children.  But I hope and pray that it will never come down to this.