we were back together the last 3 yrs ..landlord will np, I have the kids as of right now , & yesterday she took youngest to beach & bought her a bunch of stuff, buyin her love ,, the oldest remembers when she left her the first time ,this is second time she walked out on them , & doesnt really want to see or talk to her.. isnt oldest old enough to speak her mind ?to judge etc as to what she wants, she is 12