i am a 31 yr old male in atlanta ga married to a 23 yr old female- we have not filed any divorce papers- last week she told me she wants to see other men, be free of marriage and our daughter and "just go out and party" her ass off- i said fine go ahead. we are seperated and she lives in her fathers ancient house- it has and asbestos roof and its so old when it rains the asbestos is washing off of the tiles and running to the ground.... she let me get my daughter 3 days ago and now i am not wanting to give her back- i know i have the right to keep her but i dont want to keep her away from her mother i just dont want her in such a dangerous environment. we will be filing for divorce within the next week. all i want is joint custody with a no co-habitation clause- what are the proper steps? i also need a say so in where mom is living so that i am not worried about my daughters health.