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I did do some investigation on my own because my husband claimed that he had someone from my former place of employment who would testify against me.  In speaking to the HR director there (who is a very good friend and wrote an initial affidavit for me), she couldn't find anyone who would touch things with a ten foot pole.

In addition, if there were supposed "federal charges" against me, don't you think that I would have known about something by now?  It just seems like this is a desperate action considering I've done 110% of the parenting the entire time.  In addition, I think that much of this stems from the fact that I recently took a job back in my hometown 4 hours away where I have tons of family and access to mental health services for my son.  I have to believe that a judge will look on that favorably.

The trial is scheduled for June 9 in Nebraska

I am coming to the end of a very bitter divorce and am less than a week away from my trial date to finalize everything.  I was just informed by my attorney that now my husband is planning to fight for custody (I was awarded temporary sole custody based on testimony by affidavit).  He has threatened my family members that he is bringing witnesses that will testify about my mental state and is also bringing me up on federal charges (I'm very confused about what these would be....).  I have dealt with threats like this throughout our marriage (15 years) and especially since we have separated.  In addition, he only sat through one mediation appointment and cancelled the remaining one.

How much weight will a judge put on his claims?  I have literally raised our kids by myself and have exclusively dealt with a son with mental health issues.  All these threats and baseless claims have put some serious undue stress on the kids, which makes just being a kid hard to do.

Any thoughts?