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everything I do as far as talking to my ex it never involves my spouse. We talk via email or text or over the phone. My wife is never around. I think she just hates my situation that I have moved on. But your probably right.
Right now we are dealing with solving our daycare situation. That is a challange I will have on the 18th of June. She is saying that she is paying her mother for daycare cost. ugh
another battle. ugh

KSMarks..thanks for the information. Scares the hell out of me now...but
I don't know...I just want to stop the asking. Its like I'm asking for permission
to see my daughter now..its ridiculous. But I really appreciate everything. I live in California
and Ocean also.. thank you so much. I will think about both of your responses.

Hi 
I have a nine year old daughter who I see two times during the week (weekdays) and I also get her during vacation times
and when she is out of school. There is really no specifics in our custody paperwork showing exactly what days
I'm suppose to have. We both have always agreed by word of mouth, but that doesnt seem to be the case now. Ever since
I have moved on with my life and remarried and expecting another child my ex has changed big time.
Right now I have to ask her if I can have my daughter on certain days and when my vacation
days come up etc.... Is there a way I can get papers filed for custody basically only stating the days that I want my have my daughter, so
my ex won't keep on telling me that she decides what days I should have her?
for example I want her two days durning week during schook, when I take my vacations during the year, and three
days during the week when school is out, and every other year for all holidays?? I'm not changing anything, but things
right now need to be more specific since she says she has all the power when it comes to my daughter.
Tiger