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Hello! I just went to court for my objection to the relocation of daughter with ex. The magistrate ruled for a family evaluation which could take 6mos or longer. She is not aloud to be removed from ohio until the case is over. If ex wants to move then she can do so but daughter shall be with me. My ex brought our daughter to court which I was so mad about but I didn't say anything the magistrate see when she came out to the waiting room to talk with the bailiff. She was NOT HAPPY!

So I didn't get to see daughter until yesterday because it wasn't my time. Everything went well she was so happy and we laughed alot together. When she went back to her mom's she text me and said " thanks for ruining my life" I was heart broken and crushed. I asked her why she felt this way and she replies with that's what my mom said. How could her mom do this to our daughter. Today I was checking my email and daughter had sent me an email stating she was so sorry for texting me that and she loves me very much. "I just want to keep my mom and everyone happy". And she just wants this to be over.  Should I show the evaluator these text messages and emails?

Thanks inadvance!

Does it say that she has visitation with the child during your visitation?  That seems odd.  The whole point of visitation is so that the child can spend time with the NCP.  Any time that the child is with the CP should not count towards your parenting time.

Is your summer schedule two weeks on and two weeks off?

Yes she is supposed to have wednesday's and every other weekend when I have daughter. We can do 1 week on/off or 2 weeks on/off. which I prefer the 2 weeks on and then 2 weeks off.

[I am writing to you in hopes that we can come to an agreement for our summer companionship time. I would like to have " HER NAME" as follows beginning on June 19 at 5:00 P.M. And ending on July 3rd at 7:00 P.M.. during that 2 week time frame you will have every other weekend starting at 5:00 P.M. And ending on Sunday at 7:00 P.M. And Wednesday's for your weekday companionship time. The same schedule should be followed when it is your two week parenting time also. If you should have any questions please contact me at.]

Keep it simple
Ex
"According to our divorce( court, separation) papers, I have summer parenting with child name. I will pick her/him up on XX at XXpm at what address. If these dates do not work for the children, please give me alternate dates by June 20th"
You

Get it signature requested so she has to sign for it and you can prove she got letter.

I alreadt typed up a letter could you please take a look at it and tell me if it sounds alright. Thank you


I am writing to you in hopes that we can come to an agreement for our summer companionship time. I would like to have " HER NAME"  as follows beginning on June 19 at 5:00 P.M. And ending on July 3^rd at 7:00 P.M.. during that 2 week time frame you will have every other weekend starting at 5:00 P.M. And ending on Sunday at 7:00 P.M. And Wednesday's for your weekday companionship time. The same schedule should be followed when it is your two week parenting time also. If you should have any questions please contact me at.

Send her a certified with signature letter stating when you would like to have summer parenting. If she says no, then you have that as proof you tried and take her back to court for specific dates and time.

Should this letter be formal or just state thought I would like to have my parenting time and specify dates.

O.k. great! Thank you very much

My X wife sent me papers on her intent to relocate. I tried to talk to her about her moving and she was very nasty and hostile and said there wasn't a damn thing I could do because her husband is in the military and he is being relocated to another state. I asked her to put myself in her shoes and what she would do if I was to move with daughter. She replied I would fight you in court.

So needless to say I did some homework and filed an objection to her relocation,modification in parental rights and responsibilities and motion for ex parte order. The judge signed the order to restrain daughter to the state of ohio. We go to court in july thankfully.

I want to know about summer companionship time. In my decree it states nothing about certain dates,times etc.
         It states that Non residential parent's schedule shall have priority over residential parent's unless residential parent's vacation time is mandated by provisions of his/her employment (such as annual plant shut down). The parties shall give written notice of the vacation schedule at least 60 days inadvance.

This the only thing mentioned about vacation. So what should I do to have my summer companionship time.