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Well thanks for all the help!  (For someone with such a negative Karma, you give some extremely useful advice Davy!)

I will read into what I have to do and get to work on this...

Thanks again!

Let me start off by saying that I am not perfect, I've made mistakes in my life, and yeah...I should have done a lot more early in the break up...I won't make excuses, but anyways...

Hello, I'm a Father of 2 (techincally 3, but we'll get in to that later) living in Missouri, my two children live in Ohio, and finally gotten a divorce after trying for 4 years, unfortunetly the custody could not be resolved as the divorce was done in a different state to the one the children reside in.  I'm hoping for some advice about several things.

I can not afford a lawyer, I know I can't.  But I did my divorce and my girlfriends Bankruptcy Pro Se.  I'm hoping I can do the Child Custody thing in the same way?  Has anyone done this that can offer me any advice?

I really need to know what my rights are as to where I stand right now with the children, I am completely at her mercy at this point, and she is rather upset I managed to get the divorce to finally go through, so I'm not sure if I can do anything here...

She continues to threaten me that she has a "bunch of people" willing to say stuff for her when it comes to the hearing, I'll, again, be honest, I do not remember much from my time living with her, I blocked most of it out of my memory I guess, but I know I didn't do anything bad and I was a relatively good father, not the best, but I wasn't terrible.  Is this anything I should be concerned about?

Any advice at all would be appreciated. 
Thanks.