I'm new to SPARC--just found it, but wished I had years ago.
Introduction (condensed version of a VERY long story): I've been divorced for 3-1/2 years. 1 child involved. Both me and my X are remarried now. VERY long protracted and nasty legal battle to get settlement agreement changed because X changed the circumstances. We each spent about $60k on attorneys, now we're both broke and representing pro se. My X is very manipulative and always has something up her sleeve to try to extract more $ from me--e.g., I only found out she remarried in court hearing about alimony. The court has been VERY slow: took several months to rule on child support changes after I filed Emerg. Motion when I lost my job and filed bankruptcy. Now taking several months to rule on alimony termination. Now I lost my job again a year later and filed another Emerg. Motion. Child support agency filed a motion months ago re: arrears when I was unemployed--still no hearing set on that one--they are disorganized but being nice about it.
Here's the question: My X asked if her husband--the child's step-father--can have power of attorney in case I can't be reached (1st it's odd that she asked--she never asks for anything, just tells or does). Obviously, my wife should also have it if he gets it. But I've seen some disturbing discussion on this forum about POA--like removing birth-parent from child's school records. Considering my X has custody 95% of the time, is POA really necessary? I have my cell phone with me all the time. It's my X that is hard to reach--she refuses to get a cell phone and lives in the middle of nowhere (probably no service anyway).
What could be up her sleeve with the POA request? I suspect everything she does.
Thanks for any help on this.
Introduction (condensed version of a VERY long story): I've been divorced for 3-1/2 years. 1 child involved. Both me and my X are remarried now. VERY long protracted and nasty legal battle to get settlement agreement changed because X changed the circumstances. We each spent about $60k on attorneys, now we're both broke and representing pro se. My X is very manipulative and always has something up her sleeve to try to extract more $ from me--e.g., I only found out she remarried in court hearing about alimony. The court has been VERY slow: took several months to rule on child support changes after I filed Emerg. Motion when I lost my job and filed bankruptcy. Now taking several months to rule on alimony termination. Now I lost my job again a year later and filed another Emerg. Motion. Child support agency filed a motion months ago re: arrears when I was unemployed--still no hearing set on that one--they are disorganized but being nice about it.
Here's the question: My X asked if her husband--the child's step-father--can have power of attorney in case I can't be reached (1st it's odd that she asked--she never asks for anything, just tells or does). Obviously, my wife should also have it if he gets it. But I've seen some disturbing discussion on this forum about POA--like removing birth-parent from child's school records. Considering my X has custody 95% of the time, is POA really necessary? I have my cell phone with me all the time. It's my X that is hard to reach--she refuses to get a cell phone and lives in the middle of nowhere (probably no service anyway).
What could be up her sleeve with the POA request? I suspect everything she does.
Thanks for any help on this.