I have three kids and two with my ex. In Aug 08, I move to a better part of town where the school performs better. From the Divorce decree, I can't move more than 60 miles away from him (which I didn't I over 55 miles away). The next month, Sep 08, I file for Modification of Custody and/or Visitation since the previous 6 months he saw his kid when he feel like it.
Once every month and for the summer he saw them only once. I never stop him to see is kids. But he lies to them and tells then his coming and never show up. Since Jan 09 is saw his son 3 times because his son doesn't want to go with him.... He hides in the house to not go and cry if we force him. The daughter that he never pays attention of is desperately seeking for his attention and went once a moth with him (when he shows up). We add a mediation hearing and there was no way to talk, he screams and lie and the mediator send us to court. 3 days before the court, I receive paper from layer!!!
He has a lawyer!!! (By the way the Child support system show he owes more than $18,400 in child support) Is layer is sending me a request for ore time, which I deny and the same day I received by mail a Motion to Dismiss, Motion for Contempt, Motion for Modification of child Custody and Visitation and Motion for Psychological Evaluation.
WOW!!!
I don't have money for a lawyer... All I wanted is for him to help taking care of his kids!!! He does not pay or help or anything!!
I feel like giving up!!! I don't make any money and I don't know what to do or how to reply to those motions...
Please somebody helps!! What can I do to fight back??
I know he take drug?
Can I make the court testing for drug and show that he is not a suitable parent?? HELP!!!
Once every month and for the summer he saw them only once. I never stop him to see is kids. But he lies to them and tells then his coming and never show up. Since Jan 09 is saw his son 3 times because his son doesn't want to go with him.... He hides in the house to not go and cry if we force him. The daughter that he never pays attention of is desperately seeking for his attention and went once a moth with him (when he shows up). We add a mediation hearing and there was no way to talk, he screams and lie and the mediator send us to court. 3 days before the court, I receive paper from layer!!!
He has a lawyer!!! (By the way the Child support system show he owes more than $18,400 in child support) Is layer is sending me a request for ore time, which I deny and the same day I received by mail a Motion to Dismiss, Motion for Contempt, Motion for Modification of child Custody and Visitation and Motion for Psychological Evaluation.
WOW!!!
I don't have money for a lawyer... All I wanted is for him to help taking care of his kids!!! He does not pay or help or anything!!
I feel like giving up!!! I don't make any money and I don't know what to do or how to reply to those motions...
Please somebody helps!! What can I do to fight back??
I know he take drug?
Can I make the court testing for drug and show that he is not a suitable parent?? HELP!!!