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My wife took kids on one last trip before school.  She didn't bring them back.  She came and got clothes and beds.  Says she is going to think about things for a couple of months.  I don't know that she intends to come back.  She and the kids are 1100 miles away in another state.  Our oldest has some emotional issues and doesn't do well with change.  I want my kids back but don't want to push her away. I hope for reconciliation.  How long does one wait before pursuing parental kidnapping?