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Their ages are 10,9 and 4. We have kept in contacted with the school, but we cant take them to the Dr because we need their medicaid cards. And they dont occasionally  make their meals, its an every night thing. Also, they do not choose to sit in their room. The BM can not financially support the children, and has told us the only reason we cant have them is she cant live without the child support we pay her because her husband doesnt work, and she only makes $8 an hour.

So my husband and I are about to go into a custody battle with his ex-wife, they had 3 children together. We know that the kids will have a much better life with us. I know most cases are granted to the mother, but we aren't going to stop fighting. So here is a little back ground. Since the mother has had them the kids have gained a ton of weight, they come here telling us how they are always just sit in their room. They have to make their own dinners, which consist of cereal and sandwiches. Once they locked one of the kids in the room, and he wet himself, and got in trouble for it. She JUST got a job, after a year of not working and her husband hasnt worked in 3 years. The house is a wreak and it smells. Their middle child was held back from 2nd grade because her mom didnt take her to school. The list goes on. Im not claiming we are the worlds most perfect parents, but we pay more attention to the kids, we make more money and can afford them with out any help (Im not knocking anyone how does) We just want whats best for the kids. What can we do to help build our case? And what can we expect? I thank anyone who helps!