not wanting to pay child support is not the only reason, he's sent money through the courts to support his kids and none of which has really been accounted for thats why he cant afford the child support, and thats another thing i dont understand is he wasnt even aware of being put on child support until his ex wife contacted him 1 month ago and told him of this and said she just wants him to suffer so how could he be so far in the rearages that their taking over 50 percent of his wages