My soon to be ex wife has temp custody of our son due to her filing a tpo. The judge gave me phone visitation rights. For the last 4 weeks, since i began talking to him his mother has been having him lie to me on the phone. i have asked him every nite how school was today, what he learned,what he did on recess, what he did in his before and after school program. I would hear him wispering and hear her wispering back. He would tell me everything he did. I found out he had been out of school for 3 weeks on break, and she put him in a church school while on break. I asked my son why he had lied to me, and his mom yelled in the background that "they chose to lie to me", then asked if i was on speaker phone.
I said to my son, please take me off speakerphone. she again yelled in the background " no, the judge said i can listen to your phone calls" I said no, the judge never said that, and to please take me off speaker phone. she refused. I then told my sone i loved and missed him and that i was getting off the phone now. Can she be cohearsing him to lie? Is this ok? And is she aloud to listen to my phone calls? Shouldnt these be private conversations between my son and i? Please help!!
