If everything you say is true then I can't imagine a court giving her custody of the kids. BUT YOU NEED A LAWYER!!! If you can't afford one, check around on the internet or with community groups and find someone who can do your case, or at least advise you, for free.
Sounds like your kids are in for a tough life if she is the major influence in their lives. GET HELP NOW. And definately start logging, recording and/or keeping records of EVERYTHING that happens from now on. Try and go back and remember dates or approximated dates of everything that has occurred in the past and write it all down. Daily logs go a long way in courts when it comes down to he said/she said stuff.
Do not try to represent yourself. If your kids needed surgery, you wouldn't do that by yourself and you shouldn't try to handle something as important to them as this by yourself either.
Best of luck to you man. My ex isn't as bad as yours so I feel for you. Seriously though... there is help out there for you.. you just have to do the leg work, pound on doors and make phone calls until you find it. This chick is bad news for your kids and it WILL affect them the rest of their lives!
Again... GOOD LUCK!!!! FIGHT FOR YOUR KIDS!!!
Sounds like your kids are in for a tough life if she is the major influence in their lives. GET HELP NOW. And definately start logging, recording and/or keeping records of EVERYTHING that happens from now on. Try and go back and remember dates or approximated dates of everything that has occurred in the past and write it all down. Daily logs go a long way in courts when it comes down to he said/she said stuff.
Do not try to represent yourself. If your kids needed surgery, you wouldn't do that by yourself and you shouldn't try to handle something as important to them as this by yourself either.
Best of luck to you man. My ex isn't as bad as yours so I feel for you. Seriously though... there is help out there for you.. you just have to do the leg work, pound on doors and make phone calls until you find it. This chick is bad news for your kids and it WILL affect them the rest of their lives!
Again... GOOD LUCK!!!! FIGHT FOR YOUR KIDS!!!