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I NEED HELP FROM ANYONE WHO CAN GIVE ADVICE, IM IN A VERY DIFFUCULT SITUATION AND DONT KNOW THE NEXT STEP TO TAKE MY BM LEFT ME IN AUGUST TO MOVE TO SOUTH CAROLINA FROM NEBRASKA SAID SHE WANTED T O MOVE ON WITH HER LIFE SHE WAS 7 MONTHS PREGNANT WITH MY CHILD AND ON OCTOBER THE 26 SHE HAD THE BABY AND THE NEXT DAY THE AGENCY SAID SHE NEED TO SIGN THE PAPERS THE NEXT MORNING SHE SAID SHE DIDNT WANT TO GO THROUGH WITH ANYMORE WHEN SHE FINALLY GOT TO SEE HER AND UNDERSTOOD THAT SHE WOULD HAVE HELP BUT SHE FELT LIKE EVERYONE (ADOPTION AGENCY, THE PARENTS, AND OTHERS) WOULD TALK BAD ABOUT HER AND MAKE HER PAY EVERY DIME BACK THAT THEY SPENT THE WHOLE TIME SHE WAS THERE. I REALLY THINK SHE REGRETS GIVING THE BABY UP AND WANT HER BACK TOO. BUT SHE TOLD ME ABOUT ALL TIS JUST IN TIME BECAUSE MY TIME WAS ALMOST UP TO ANWSER THE SUMMONS SO  WENT TO FAMILY COURTS AND DONE THAT BECAUSE I CANT AFFORD A LAWYER AT A REASONABLE PRICE RIGHT NOW, BUT THEY WANT EVEN TELL ME ANYTHING OR THE NEXT STEP TO TAKE NOR THE LEGAL SERVICES IN SC. I AM LOST AND CONFUESED. ALL I WANT IS TO KNOW WHAT DO I NEED TO BE DOING IN ORDER TO KNOW WHEN THERE S GOING TO BE A HEARING AND STEPS TO TAKE TO EVEN TRY TO SEE MY DAUGHTER THAT I HAVE NEVER SEEN. I JUST WANT MY BABY BACK IVE NEVER BEEN OR KNOWN ANYONE IN THIS TYPE OF SITUATION CAN SOME ONE PLEASE HELP R GIVE ADVICE ON GETTING MY BABY GIRL BACK THANKS AND GOD BLESS!!

Thanks for the info but the baby isnt dead she ouldnt hold it in any longer so she tld the truth and just so happen i stiil had time to anwser the summons and i did all that with family courts and its been bout three weeks and i still have heard anything nor has anyone called me, i went to legal service to see if i could get assist with the representing me but they denied me. No one was willing to take my case. Im a 44 year old man with five kids that i work hard for to take care of and yes me and BM was going through things but i was still going to be there for my kids. SHe is very emotional and left me and went to SC where she gave the baby up for adoption. I got there like two days after she had the aby but she had already been release so i couldnt found out anything i was taking her word on what happen to the baby. I standing behind her 100% because she needs help and she is doing all she can to get it but she said she felt like she had to go through with it because the adoption parents were doing so much for her and our three year old she didnt want to disappoint them at the end. All i need is advice on what to do next they want let me have a blood test they want even let me see a picture of my child and its suppose to be open adoption. No one will tell me anything on what i need to be doing or how i can found out when y hearing is and i cant afford 3500 upfront for a lawyer right now. SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME ANY SUGGESTIONS ON WHAT I MAY NEED TO DO ABOUT ALL THIS PLEASE I WANT MY BABY GIRL BACK WHERE SHE BELONGS.

I have this same issue going on and i really want my daughter back i dindnt knw anything about whats was going on my childs mother told me the baby past away she was scared to tell me is there ANYBODY out there can give me advice PLEASE I WANT MY DAUGHTER BACK