Sounds like you've needed to get your ex back in front of the judge for some time. I'd say now's as good a time as any.
In times past, I've used the Answer and Counterclaim (one document) with great success. Basically, it's one document that does two things. 1) Answer: You deny everything your ex says in her claim. 2) Treat your Counterclaim as a affidavit, stating your charges for contempt. Then based upon your Counterclaim, file your Motion for Contempt. Additionally, based on your ex's history of behavior, you should also Motion the Court for "Remedy Clauses" in your next order.
Tom
In times past, I've used the Answer and Counterclaim (one document) with great success. Basically, it's one document that does two things. 1) Answer: You deny everything your ex says in her claim. 2) Treat your Counterclaim as a affidavit, stating your charges for contempt. Then based upon your Counterclaim, file your Motion for Contempt. Additionally, based on your ex's history of behavior, you should also Motion the Court for "Remedy Clauses" in your next order.
Tom