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oh and that amount is incorrect now... just a fyi kelly before you start going off again

I dont care if she runs my name through google I have nothing to hide. she just dont know wtf she is talking about. shes just mad because she got proved wrong.

god you are nosy kelly and really it is none of your business. Why are you so worried about my support anyhow.. If you really must know I was out of work in 2007 for a year because of back problems and I had a back fusion that left me out of work for a year it took that long for my fusion to fully heal and my support was 800.00 a month and california charges intrest. So I was not able to catch up on it. on top of paying when I went back to work..Are you happy now. Please Stay out of my business Im here to have questions answerd not for you to be giving me CRAP.GET A LIFE (i dont mean to be rude but im sick of your mouth!)

ok one more question if anyone knows the answer

I faxed my papers to the court the file clerk told me that she could not submit my evidence i.e. phone records ect. because it was not in the right format.

I asked her what the right format was and she just sidestepped my question

do i have to file an affidavit with these papers?

If so does anyone know of any good sites I could use as a refrence as to how to fill it out in the propper manner

I have been doing some research and am getting more confused the more i search:)

I did look under the california courts website and didnt understand what form was used for what.  Its family law and i am just submitting phone records, copys of a

a couple text messages medical records and proof of another person supporting me right now. 

Thank you again for any help

wow well i was coming back on here to ask one more question but looks like I better clear some things up.

my ex husband did not have a mailing address for me because I lost my home when i had to stop working and I just now have a perment address.. I am lucky enough to have  loving friends and family that have helped support me through out this time, as far as me moving is none of your business as to why and under what circumstanses.  my ex husband was stateing to the court I have had no contact with the children or him since june 2010 wich is not even close to being true. even though I have not provided him with an address up untill this point he and my children have always had a phone number for me. I have always paid my support for the children untill this accident happend. It was not reported right away because I was in no condition to deal with the matter. He did know what had happend I called him and told him what happend he called me a lier and hung up the phone on me.  I have had contact with my children up untill the point he quit answering the phone.  As far as providing meical records to him or anyone... um if you think about it I had to have time to go to the doctor these past months and a determination of me being disabled is not just a one visit ruleing.  my ex husband is by no means struggling to support  the children at this time, that is not the problem I know what is but I am not going to sit here and bash on him.  as far as haveing to wait to apply for my disability it states on the site that you have to be out of work for 1 year before a determination is made. I have not even hit that one year mark. so I suggets before you call someone a bad mother or father you know all the facts. you would not like that said about you.

Anyhow I had court and I did have time to submit my paperwork wich I am greatfull for it is extended untill the 18th because of the medical records. I am certain now that my children will not be taken away per his request because I had phone records of many calls and txts back and forth, copys of some very rude comments of things he said he would be telling the children about me. and my mecical records.. that is all i was worried about it was not about the support, I did not ask to have it zero out that was what the childsupport in california told me.  but anyhow hopefully this will all straiten out and we can come to an agreement that will be in the best interest of the boys. and again thank you everyone for your support and help with this matter. (sorry it caused such a blow out on the site:)

Thank you so Very much.. You have been such a help!! I filed today for my disability and Medicade if they approve me. So hopefully I can get things rolling. Blessings to you and yours always!

One more question.

Can I ask the judge for a new parenting plan since I have relocated things need to be adjusted as far as travel ect. for the children. Or do I need to go to a mediator here in VA and put in a request with them.

Sorry about the spelling (TBI)

Thank you very much for the help with my questions.

I have a couple more if anyone can answer them.

The Child Support Lady told me they would zero out my child support if I can have my Dr. sighn a paper stateing I cannot work. I went to a free clinic here ( I cannot afford a dr. right now, no insurance) and she told me they would not sighn any paperwork because they were a free clinic. And she doubted that any Dr. here would because I do not have a relationship with them. My past Drs were in Montana where I was involved in my accident. And my court is on Oct. 4th.

I have not offically not been served the summos from the court yet it was sent to my mothers in Montana I was told by CSD to have her send it back. I sent my new address in a txt to my ex husband. (she is sending me a copy of it in the mail) but since I have not offically been served and now that he has my address does he have to resend the paperwork?  from what I read on the Internet since I live out of state I have to have a 60 day notice is this  true?

I have sent for my medical records but just got the medical release form today and faxed it back ( the clinic would not even let me have them faxed to them so I have to have them mailed to me.) They will not be here in time for my court date (not to mention sent all the way back to California)

Can I put in for a continuance on my case so I have time to get everything together and submitted? Does my ex have to agree to that if I do?  Or do I do the court call and state to the Judge that i just found out about my summons and have not had adequate time to gather information on my behalf for the case.

I am currently trying to find a place to help me file a disibality claim in my area also.

Thank You for any help I am at a loss  as how to procede with this matter.

I am being accused of haveing no contact with my children since June 2010 to date. I have phone records that I have made many phone calls and sent text messages. My custody agreement states I am to have the children over summer vacation. I could not take them this year due to a car wreck i was in and broke my neck and I have TBI a brain Injury due to this.

I have been unable to work since this happend Dec. 2011 so i have not been able to pay support since then. My ex husband is trying to have the judge rule that I have no contact with the children untill my back support is paid. that I have to go under a mental evaluation through the military and pay for it. He wants Sole custody.

He quit answering my phone calls quite some time ago. So I have no contact at all even though I still try to contact them. They reside in California, I was in the area for a couple months and wanted to see the children he stated he would call the cops if I showed up.

I called my son once and the first thing he asked me is mom why dont you pay your child support, He is 8.

I have recieved many nasty text messages from him. i.e. over xmas he stated in one I will tell the children you sent nothing and that the stuff came from someone who cares.

I have done nothing wrong, and do not deserve to be excluded from my childrens lives. I am doing Court Call to California I reside in Virgina now. I guess my main question is how do I submit my medical records and proof of phone records to the judge since i am doing court call and have no Lawyer.  He does

The lady from the child support division called me and said she could not belive his alligations it was the weirdest thing she had ever seen, and that she could not even talk or reason with him.

Im kind of at a loss as how i need to present my case on my own I dont want to loose custody of my children because I was hurt in an accident.