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 just so its clear i know i can get off track and unclear in my responses.  my babys mother has the children. I believe the night of the incodent they left them with her  boyfriend with the kids and took her to jail.  she still has them. I have never had a custody order as stated above. always worked with her instead of court. as i do not usually prefer the police and court as friends since they have cost me so much..  I am now ready to go to court seeing as the recent events i no longer feel she is a good mother for my child. Me and my fiance are due in feb for a little girl and. and  he is more than welcome in my central florida home thirty mins from disney. Please a little more advice and inspiration please..

than you to everyone in this forumn Ive only been here two days and i already feel at home.

well ive been in touch with dcf and a attorney. The attorney was utterly (disapointing!!!!) the dcf worker told me that she has the children.  that the case is new to her..  She said over the next 45 days she will be reviewing the situation. She took down my info and told me she would be in touch with me. I am about to sell one of my cars for dirt cheap just to get some funds up..  87 fhp mustang if anyone wants it lol... but the attorney told me not to be hopefull that the state will do everything they can to keep the child with her and that i had a impossible feet in front of me she wanted 4 grand to take the case and I would most likely lose. she told me to do it myself and how to.  (Very nice of her) .  I would like to know more about taking the case outside of family court to a regular court is this possible in the commonwealth of massachusetts.  I see there has been some recent inchoatives for father rights in mass. Does anyone have some attorney names that might be willing to take something like this on. My next plan of action is to go to the family court IN MASS this aint cheap.. lol ..   and file a complaint for custody. and if anyone knows how to fill this out please message me..   
       lastly said I was gravely disappointed by what the attorney said this evening I was  about to just give it up again Untill I looked at this forumn Thank you all for the good advice and encouragement..

she has had him since he was born we were never married.. I was in and out of his life (when she wanted a relationship with me) for the first year and a half.  I have never been the custodial parent she has always been. My son is now three and a half. I moved to fl back with family two years ago due to loss of job stemming from civil injunction she held against me for three months. I now reside in fl.  Her younger son is from a buddy of mine but not the man she has been with for the last year. The man that was in the house was a boyfriend of a year and after some background research he has been arrested for domestic a/b while living at her address..   she has kicked him out and now has a new boyfriend according to facebook. No i have not contested custody in the past due to being afraid of throwing everything i have at it and not winning. as it stands the only time she has let me see him is if im with her and when i say this she wants more then just visits with my son.. I have tried to contact her bf that was kicked out but have not been succesfull. but he as well has been charged with the crime but she was the one on the news and in the papers.

my babys mom was arrested in late nov for keeping my son locked in his room with a space heater on.  Her and her ex were fighting and the neighbers called the police when they arrived they found her drunk and argueing with her bf and the police found my son and her other son locked in a room with a space heater on and the room was in the 90's. the children were sweating but ok . when she was asked why the kids were LOCKED in there they were told to keep her oldest  my son from walking around in the middle of the night. now I am a little upset i pay child support and i was never notified untill I saw it on the interenet..   I need some good strong advice on how to handle this sutuation.  I would like to have custody of my son..  this case is in the new bedford family court in mass.