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who am I? I am a dad of a 17yr old son in MN. I have been divorced for 16 yrs, so it is not that I am bitter.
Mom has custody and I have visitation every other weekend, and one day a week.
I have  been faithful to paying my child support on time, visitation, and beyond. she knows I will not let him go without the necessaties in life. My child support is set at $150 ABOVE the child support calculator. She has moved him as of Sat, 17 times in his 17 yrs. Needless to say there have been some behavior issues at home and at school. I believe stability is important. He was just starting to do well in his school, then mom moved him 225 miles away.He has not attended school for 3 weeks now, he is supposedly starting on Monday. Living this far away makes it impossible for me to see him during the week and difficult even for a weekend. we spend more time in the car than anything. Mom is supposed to meet me half way but wont, if I dont pick him up she tells him I dont want to see him. She is very controlling and manipulative. He has stated that he would like to live with me, and I think that would be in his best interest. I have been told there is a paper to fill out at the courthouse but no one knows the name :/